Which are you: a servant to the Lord or His friend? Both, you say. Or perhaps your answer would be that you are born again and therefore a son, but you are basically His servant since you call Him Lord. How would you describe your relationship?
I don’t believe our relationship with Him is easily compared to any other single kind of relationship we have experienced. Or, perhaps we could say it is a combination of many kinds of relationships we have.
I don’t believe our relationship with Him is easily compared to any other single kind of relationship we have experienced. Or, perhaps we could say it is a combination of many kinds of relationships we have.
In the Bible we first know God as our Creator. In the Old Covenant (Testament) in the Bible we begin to further know Him partly through His names—Jehovah Jireh, Jehovah Rapha, etc. He is also referred to as “Adonai”, or “Lord” which of course describes His position over the universe and over us. It implies obedience to Him.
Switching to the New Covenant (Testament) we hear Jesus, our Lord and God, say these words:
“No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I heard from My Father I have made known to you.”—John 15:15
Jesus is telling His disciples that He desires no longer to relate to them simply as a rabbi or a master, but He has taken them into His confidence. This is the relationship of a close friend. Yes, He does expect our obedience, but would much prefer our love and cooperation in His Kingdom processes rather than obedience from the mindset of a servant.
In the book of Galatians the apostle Paul speaks of “schoolmasters” or “tutors”. He saw the law (implying obedience) like a pedagogue, or schoolmaster, of Paul’s time. The tutor was appointed by the boy’s father to arrange for all of the boy’s training. Only when he had completed all of this training was the son declared as achieving his “sonship position” in the household and in society. It was a mark of maturity. He was, as we would say, ready to take over the father’s business.
God, I believe, desires to be to us as a father to a mature son. Also He desires a friendship relationship. Do we desire this or are we always waiting for the “ax to fall” on us because of our shortcomings. Or are we always running off somewhere and doing our own thing? We are already “sons” by birth, yet we must mature so that we can share in the administration of His Kingdom. And, we need to seek God's face so that we may be a friend to Him.